Mediation Prep

Cases settle at mediation. Preparation decides how well.

Florida family courts refer most contested cases to mediation before trial. The prepared party shapes the agreement; the unprepared party reacts to it.

Know the ground rules

Mediation is confidential — offers made there generally can't be used in court later.
The mediator is neutral: they broker agreement, they don't decide or give either side legal advice.
Nothing binds you until it's signed. Anything signed binds you hard — read before signing, and this is THE moment for attorney review.
Full or partial agreements both count: settling four of six issues shrinks the trial.

Bring the numbers, not vibes

Financial affidavit numbers current and defensible.
Child support scenarios pre-run — know what the guideline does at each realistic time-sharing split.
The marital estate list: every asset and debt with a value and a proposed home.
Arrears/payment math if support is already flowing.

The three-column worksheet

Must-have: the short list you'd try the case over.
Negotiable: what you can trade, and what you want back for it.
Walk-away: what you will not sign, so you don't get worn into it at hour four.
Fill it out when calm. Consult it when tired.

Parenting specifics to resolve

School-year schedule, summer schedule, and every holiday by name.
Exchange times, locations, and transportation.
Decision-making by area, communication rules, travel notice.
The parenting plan stress test is the agenda — bring your results.

Run support scenarios Parenting plan builder Financial numbers Pre-mediation attorney review

Educational information, not legal advice and not negotiation strategy for your specific case. Signed mediation agreements are enforceable contracts — attorney review before signing is the cheapest insurance in family law.